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Responsible Travel Tips For Families (Beyond Carbon Credits And Voluntourism)

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One thing I’ve been trying to do since becoming a travel blogger is to marry my desire to share travel stories and destinations with my background in international development. I know that these two are interlinked. But the connection may not always be obvious. As a blogger, it’s not enough, in my opinion, to write about travel without thinking about the true impact of travel and offering responsible travel tips.

I’ve had conversations with other families about our responsibilities as travelers, especially within my Responsible Family Travel Facebook group. So I know I’m not the only one who cares about responsible and ethical travel.

Additionally, many travel companies exist that operate with a more responsible tourism lens in mind. We’ve had amazing trips swimming with whale sharks in Mexico and exploring Ubud activities in Indonesia with travel companies who are sustainably minded.

But the topic of responsible travel isn’t something that is top of mind for all families who travel. And I feel like that needs to change. So I thought I’d put together a list of some responsible travel tips to help families be more mindful as they travel in this world.

This post was updated on April 9, 2021.

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Playing in the sand on the Oregon Coast (July 2018)

Going beyond the obvious responsible travel tips

Underscoring all my travel experiences is the understanding that we have a responsibility as travelers to make sure that we leave the world just the same as we saw it (or even better). This is the essential idea behind my responsible travel tips. But many people limit responsible travel to helping the environment or volunteering somewhere.

There’s actually more to responsible travel and ethical travel than that! Being responsible means being mindful of your actions as a traveler. It involves thinking about the unintended consequences of all the things you do when you travel. This can be booking a hotel, buying a meal, or taking a picture. I’ve written about how to practice ethical family travel before. And I have also provided several simple responsible travel tips in that post for how families can engage in more ethical travel.

If all of this sounds overwhelming, don’t worry. Traveling responsibly doesn’t have to be hard. But it does take a bit of education and effort. I don’t claim to be the perfect responsible traveler. There are definitely moments in our travels where I question whether what I do is the right thing. But to me, the most important thing is mindfulness. We need to constantly be aware of our actions.

A man, a girl, and a boy hiking near a natural arch at Arches National Park and practice responsible travel
Hiking at Arches National Park (August 2018)

Understanding the travel code of ethics

One thing that helps with awareness is following a travel code of ethics. In 1999, the United Nations World Tourism Organization (UNWTO) issued the Global Code of Ethics for Tourism. It’s not widely publicized, but it’s a perfect set of standards that tourists can follow if they want to practice responsible travel.

The travel code of ethics outlines ten principles that governments, travel companies, travel communities, and even individuals can follow to make travel a force for good. And I’ve found this code to be helpful in thinking about responsible travel tips that families can use.

Walking through a park in Mexico (November 2018)

Responsible travel tips to follow

As travelers, you can use these principles as a basis for the choices you make when you travel. At first, it may seem like a chore to think through these principles. But once you start doing it, the practice will eventually become second nature to you.

Here are some easy to do responsible travel tips that you and your family can use, based on the travel code of ethics.

Traveling by jeepney in Puerto Princesa, Philippines (February 2020)

#1: Be respectful of the people and societies you encounter

The first principle of responsible travel involves being respectful of the places you visit and the people you encounter. Specifically, it means making an effort to know the basic cultural norms. It also means respecting the laws and social rules of that country.

When we travel to a new destination, we try to spend some time getting to know the do’s and don’ts of that place. We’ll do this by watching YouTube videos, checking out books from the library, or reading blog posts about that destination. For example, when we visited Pura Lempuyang in Bali (famously known as the Gates of Heaven), we made sure to brush up on the do’s and don’ts of visiting a Balinese Hindu temple.

We also like to learn a few key phrases in the language of that country. Again, YouTube is a great resource as there are countless language-learning channels to choose from. But language learning apps like Duolingo are also good resources. Their lessons allow us to practice speaking simple phrases. If you’re into phrasebooks, getting one for the country that you’re visiting can also be helpful.

For our time in Italy, we used Rick Steve’s Italian phrase book to learn some Italian phrases. And when we were in Mexico, we used a combination of Duolingo and in-person Spanish lessons to learn Spanish for travel.

Attempting to communicate in the language of the country you’re visiting, rather than assuming that people speak your language (in our case, English) goes a long way in showing people that you respect their culture. It’s one of the easiest responsible travel tips to follow.

Watching Aztec dancing in Mexico City (October 2018)

#2: Approach travel as a means towards enrichment rather than just entertainment

A second principle in the travel code of ethics is that travel shouldn’t just be a form of entertainment. Travel can also be something that is enriching for yourself and for the greater community.

When you travel somewhere, take some time to learn something from your travels. You can do this at the macro level (understanding the role of that destination in the greater context of world). And you can also do this at the micro level (understanding the roles that groups play WITHIN that country).

We like to take cultural or historical tours when we travel to a destination. We especially like taking it from someone who has a personal connection to that culture. In San Miguel de Allende, Mexico, we did a food tour to learn about the local culture and history. We also took a cooking class in Puerto Vallarta. When we were in Costa Rica, my daughter and I took a chocolate workshop to learn about the history of chocolate. And in Indonesia, we did a Bali day tour, where we learned about life in a traditional Balinese home.

The good thing about this set of responsible travel tips is that you can really make it approachable for your family. You don’t have to pay for a tour to learn about the local culture. If you prefer to learn on your own, you can visit a local museum, cultural center, or historical center. This can be an easy way for you and your family to gain some enriching traveling experiences.

Making Balinese offerings in Indonesia (October 2019)

#3: Find activities that promote sustainability

A key component of responsible travel is a focus on sustainability. In the context of the travel code of ethics, this means a focus on the environment. But it also means a focus on the local community. Essentially, whatever you do in travel, you want it to be something that future generations can also enjoy, and that will benefit the local community.

Some responsible travel tips for families in this area is to do activities that help to preserve the environment in a responsible way. For example, in the United States, we like to support and visit the National Parks. Our kids like taking part in the Junior Ranger programs. These programs help them learn about nature, and also encourages them to be good stewards of the environment. And when we were in Mexico, we had a chance to release baby sea turtles into the ocean.

When it comes to sustainable travel practices, making an effort to reduce our reliance on plastic and fuel is also important. When possible, avoid using single-use plastic, especially straws. We carry a GRAYL water bottle that has a filter and water purifier, so that we don’t have to constantly buy bottled water. We also like to carry around stainless steel drinking straws. These straws are fairly easy to clean and wash. And when it comes to transportation, we try to choose the most fuel-efficient mode of travel whenever possible.

Two children’s hands and two adult’s hands holding four plastic bowls with baby sea turtles inside, practicing responsible travel tips
Releasing baby sea turtles in Mexico (January 2019)

#4: Preserving and enhancing our cultural heritage

The fourth principle in UNWTO’s travel code of ethics is a focus on preserving historical, archaeological, and cultural sites and activities. When you’re traveling somewhere, find ways to learn about the historical significance of a destination.

For our family, we like visiting UNESCO world heritage sites. Over the years, we’ve visited 23 UNESCO sites together, in North America, South America, Asia, and Europe!

One of the most important aspects of this set of responsible travel tips, especially when you’re visiting historical places, is to be respectful of the rules. These rules are meant to help preserve the historical artifacts, so that future generations can visit that place too.

Too many times, I’ve seen travelers disregard the rules, just for a selfie or a photo op. During our visit to the Leaning Tower in Pisa, for example, we saw many tourists posing for pictures in the grass, even though there were clearly marked signs advising people not to walk on the grass.

A tall tower with windows made from stone and built into a cave at Mesa Verde National Park for visitors to visit as part of responsible travel.
Mesa Verde National Park (August 2018)

#5: Responsible travel tips for supporting the local community

When it comes to responsible travel, supporting the local community is extremely important. This set of responsible travel tips is also relatively easy to do for families. We like frequenting local businesses and restaurants. We also like shopping at local markets. However, the intention of supporting the local community can be a complicated issue. Sometimes the actions that you think are beneficial may have unintended negative consequences to locals.

One example is accommodation. Our family has always been a supporter of Airbnb since its inception. For traveling families, it just makes more sense financially to choose an Airbnb over a hotel because of the extra space and access to a kitchen.

But over the years, Airbnb has received criticism for pushing renters out of neighborhoods, as property owners choose to offer their units for short-term rentals rather than long-term rentals. For our family, we try to counter some of the negative impacts of Airbnb by choosing units owned by locals.

Another area that we often struggle with is money. Specifically, when it comes to paying local prices. But this also applies to tipping for services and giving money to people. When it comes to giving money, we try and think about whether what we’re paying will disrupt the local economy or negatively impact the person that we are supposedly benefiting.

Overpaying for an item may create a precedent or expectation that all tourists are willing to pay more. This can inadvertently raise prices for locals. Giving unsolicited money to people, with the intention of “helping them out”, may breed animosity among others in their community who didn’t receive any money. As always, it’s important to think about the context of the situation.  

A father with a backpack and a son behind in a t-shirt and shorts, facing away from the camera and walking through a Mexican market as they practice responsible travel tips. They are walking to the right of to a stall with fresh fruit such as oranges, peaches, pears and grapes. Ahead of them is a stall with various bottles of liquids. Also ahead of them is a woman in a pink jacket, her back turned to the camera, who is walking to the left of a stall full of party supplies.
Walking through a market in Mexico (December 2018)

#6: Don’t be afraid to hold the travel industry accountable for their actions

Responsible travel isn’t just for travelers. It’s also for the other players in the travel industry: governments, travel companies, travel promoters, and even influencers and writers. All players in this industry need to make sure they are being honest in the services they offer, and the information they provide.

As travelers, part of our responsibility is holding others accountable for their actions. If a company is doing something ethically wrong, let them know in an email or send a message. If a blogger is providing misinformation about a destination, make a comment about it to correct them. My biggest peeve is when I see bloggers and influencers refer to Bali as a country. It’s actually an island in Indonesia. I have no hesitation in correcting them when I see it happen.

One thing to note, though, is to always be respectful. Public shaming on the internet should not be okay. We should always extend common courtesy and manners towards others, even if we are providing criticism.

Visiting a local attraction in Arizona (October 2018)

#7: Advocate travel for ALL people

One of the principles I love from the UNWTO travel code of ethics is the idea that travel is a right for all people. Essentially, everyone should have the right to travel. It doesn’t need to be limited to a select few. This idea is a part of my own personal beliefs. And I often work to advocate for all kinds of people to travel, including advocating for more diversity in travel. I love seeing and encouraging families of color and LGBTQ families to travel in the world.

As you’re thinking about how your family can practice responsible travel, consider whether you’re supporting companies that allow their employees to travel. This information may not be readily available. But you can always ask by sending an email.

Another consideration is to look for companies that make travel accessible for everyone. This includes people with disabilities. This group of travelers is often overlooked, because their needs are so varied. But it’s important to support the companies that are making the effort to allow people with disabilities to travel more.

A young girl sitting on the sand on the beach, her back to the camera and looking out onto the water. In the the distance are fishing boats scattered throughout the water.
Hanging out on the beach in Mexico (April 2019)

#8: Acknowledge your privileges as a traveler

As a traveler, we have certain rights. According to UNWTO, tourists should have the right to travel within their own country, and into other countries. They have the right to have access to accommodations and transportation. Unfortunately, not everyone has the ability to exercise these freedoms.

Passport privilege refers to the ability of passport holders from certain countries to travel more freely (and cheaply) among countries, in comparison to other passport holders. The Global Passport Power Rank is a site that ranks passports by the number of countries they are able to enter (without a visa, or with a visa-on-arrival).

Currently, passport holders from Germany have the most powerful passports. Their passports allow them to enter 134 countries either without a visa or by getting a visa-on-arrival. While the United States currently ranks 45th in ranking, we still hold some passport privilege. As US citizens, my family and I can enter 105 countries, 63 of those countries are visa free.

Acknowledging your passport privilege is an important part of ethical travel. It’s understanding that not everyone has the ability to travel the way that we might be able to. For citizens of countries with more restrictive passports, travel is prohibitively more expensive.  

A pair of fashion sunglasses, a USA passport, and a leather-bound journal on a wooden counter for responsible travel.
Preparing my passport for travel (May 2017)

#9: Promote the rights of workers in the travel industry

Another important principle of responsible travel is advocating for the rights of workers in the travel industry. Workers and entrepreneurs in the travel industry have a right to a fair wage, fair prices, and fair labor standards. How ethical is it to be sipping mai tais on the beach, when the server who made that mai tai is working 16 hour days (not by choice)? When possible, choose hotels, restaurants, and companies that do not exploit their workforce. And choose companies that treat their employees fairly.

Another aspect of promoting workers is when it comes to voluntourism. You may think that taking a volunteer trip to work on a farm or build houses is a noble and selfless activity. But consider the worker you may have displaced in the process.

Unless you’re a contractor or carpenter by trade, do you really have more skills to build a house than a local carpenter? Working on a farm may be unskilled work, but are there others in that country without jobs that could be doing that work instead? Is the organization or company asking for volunteers because they don’t want to pay for labor? If so, should you be supporting an organization or company like that?

There are no right answers on this. But it is important to consider whether your presence as a volunteer is preventing a local from receiving a job.

A local tour company in Puerto Vallarta (April 2019)

Make these responsible travel tips a priority for your family

Making responsible travel a part of your family culture may take time. But it is possible. Our family didn’t start thinking about this until a few years ago. And it wasn’t until we were traveling full time that we started making an active effort to practice ethical travel.

Even now, there are still moments when we question whether a particular choice was the right thing to do. We still struggle with finding sustainable forms of transportation. Or we struggle with choosing where to stay when we travel.

For your family, mindfully practising these principles from the travel code of ethics is a good step towards becoming a more responsible traveling family. Discuss what responsible travel means for your family with your partner. And also discuss it with your kids. Make ethical travel an important part of your travel decision making. Eventually, it will become second nature to you.

Do you already practice responsible travel? Share your responsible travel tips in the comments!

Responsible Travel (Beyond Carbon Credits And Voluntourism) | The Wandering Daughter |
Outline of the UNWTO Global Code of Ethics for Tourism, and how travelers can use this travel code of ethics to practice responsible travel. How to engage in ethical travel with your family.
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5 Responses

  1. I love this article! All of these things are so important, and as travelers, we need to be mindful of all of them. Thanks for sharing…

  2. What a thorough article! I really feel like there are always ways we as a family can improve as responsible travelers. This definitely gives me more ideas on different things we can work on. Thank you so much for putting this together.

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